i think sometimes it really bothers me abt how selfish and self-centered ppl can be. i'm not saying that i'm not self-centered/selfish. i think everyone in some way is like that. i once read a book which said 'anyone who drives slower than you is an idiot. and anyone who drives faster is crazy.' how true isn't it. you end up judging everyone by your own standards. it's quite unfair really. i was abt to say 'yea but it's human nature and we can't help it.' but do you really think we can't help it? *shrug* i think that we can control our thoughts and actions. and if we deem it as human nature..i think it's just an easy excuse. i think that let's say you thought that the person driving faster than you is crazy. not saying anything would be a first step to take. rather than just blurting out that he's crazy. am i making sense? i'm not exactly being v systematic here. hahahaa.

but i witnessed an act of selfishness and it just got me thinking la i guess. that well. it might seem unfair to her. and she ended up being annoyed abt it. but yet i dun blame her for being annoyed. although i thought that she could have thought through both sides of the situation before blurting out whatever she said. but yet. who can control what they say when they're pissed/annoyed right.

but then. you can control it. with God's help of course. :)

'He who does not love does not know God. For God is love.' 1John 4:8 -- i guess it's showing love by controlling what you say. isn't it?